Privacy

What is kept,
and for how long

This asks two people about their relationship, so the answer needs to be specific rather than reassuring. Everything below is what the code actually does. Last updated 4 September 2026.

There is no database

2of.you stores nothing on a disk. No accounts, no sign-up, no email address, no password, no cookies, no analytics and no advertising trackers. There is nothing here to breach later, because there is nothing here.

A room lives in the server's memory and nowhere else. Restart the server and every room in it is gone.

What a room holds, for up to 24 hours

When you send your answers, the room keeps this much about you, and no more:

  • Your two dimension scores, avoidance and anxiety, as numbers between 1 and 7.
  • The gender option you picked, if you picked one. Skipping it is a supported answer, not a gap.
  • If you wrote something in the optional questions, the averaged ratings the AI produced from it. Not what you wrote.
  • A random results token, so the link in your tab opens your results and not somebody else's.
  • The time you sent them, and the three-character room code.

The room and everything in it is deleted 24 hours after it was created, whether or not both of you finished. Nothing survives that.

What never reaches the server at all

The 36 statements are scored in your browser. Your individual answers to them are never sent anywhere: only the two totals they produce leave your device. Nobody, including whoever runs this site, can see how you answered any single statement.

What you write in the optional questions

This is the part worth reading twice, because it is the only text that leaves your browser.

What you write is sent once, to an outside AI, to be interpreted. Nothing goes with it: not your name, not the room code, not your scores, not your partner's anything. The AI's reading comes back, is shown to you, and is thrown away. It is not written to the room, so your partner cannot see it, and neither can anyone else. It is not written down here at all, which is why it appears the moment it exists rather than waiting for the results page.

The AI is Mistral Large, reached through a gateway on the same machine as this site, or whichever model that gateway falls back to if Mistral is unavailable. That provider may retain what is sent to it and may use it to train their models, under their terms rather than ours. That is the reason the page asks you to leave names out, and the reason this paragraph names them instead of saying "a third party".

Nobody who runs this site reads what you wrote. It is not logged. The server's logs record how many answers there were, how long the model took and which model answered, and never the words themselves.

Your partner

They see your two scores and the comparison drawn from them, because that is the thing you both opened the room for. They never see what you wrote, or the reading of it. That separation is in the code, not in a promise: the reading is returned to whoever wrote it and is never put in the room.

Your IP address

Requests carry your IP address, as every web request does. It is held in memory for about an hour so that one person cannot open a thousand rooms or spend the day's AI budget. It is never written to a file, never joined to a room or a score, and it is forgotten when the app restarts.

Asking for a copy, or a deletion

Wait a day and there is nothing left to ask about: rooms expire on their own, and neither of you has an account to close. If you want a room gone sooner, get in touch through danaldron.com with the code and it will be dropped.

If you think something here is wrong, the Information Commissioner's Office takes complaints at ico.org.uk.

Not a clinical tool

This is a published research instrument administered about one partner, not a diagnosis and not relationship advice. The research page says what the studies behind it actually measured, and where their limits are.